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   A message from Brian and Stephanie...

Stephanie and I would like to thank all of you for your tremendous support through this very difficult time for us. Your love and kindness will always be remembered by both of us and our family. Gina and Christopher would be touched by the outpouring of love and support that was given to our family. Although our loss is still very painful, your kind words have helped us realize the importance of celebrating the memory of their lives.

It is extremely difficult for us to put into words what Gina and Christopher meant to us.

Gina was more than a mother and wife. She was our best friend and one who we could always confide with. I shared my life with her and I cannot begin to describe how much she gave to me. In Gina, I found everything that I was missing in my own life. As for Christopher, there was never a day that went by that I was not proud of my son. He accomplished so much in his life, and he did it with such an ease, just like his mother, Gina.

Gina and I had been married for 22 years. Getting married to Gina was the happiest day of my life. However, I was blessed again to enjoy two more “happiest days of my life” when our children, Christopher and Stephanie were born. Gina and I considered ourselves extremely blessed to receive two such wonderful gifts and to raise them as our children.

Gina had always sacrificed for all us and especially for me. Gina sacrificed her career and left her beloved family in Taiwan to start a new family with me in the United States. I also must thank Gina’s parents for allowing their only daughter to travel across the Pacific Ocean to be with me. I am eternally grateful to them for this. Gina made our life complete. Her beautiful smile and personality will live on in all our hearts and minds.

Christopher had always been a wonderful son to me and a devoted brother to Stephanie. He was someone that both Stephanie and I could count on and everyday that we had with him was a blessing. Christopher was so successful in everything he did. They say that it is every father’s dream that his child’s accomplishments surpasses his own, and I can say, without a doubt, that Christopher was my dream come true.

Stephanie and I both miss Gina and Christopher dearly. We know that we will think of them everyday and remember all of the joy and happiness they brought to us. Both of them will live on in our minds and hearts forever because they managed to touch all of our lives. Stephanie would like to dedicate a poem “I did not die” by Melinda Sue Pacho to her mother and brother, because, although they are not with us on this earth, we know that Gina and Christopher will be watching us from heaven. We all love them both so much!

THANK YOU AGAIN!!!

   I Did Not Die

Do not stand at my grave and forever weep.
I am not there; I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn’s rain.
When you awaken in the morning’s hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and forever cry.
I am not there. I did not die.

- Melinda Sue Pacho 



Click on this link to view a 19+ min slideshow shown at the funeral service:
http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-3839612820805804282&hl=en

Christopher died in a car accident on Saturday August 12, 2006. Already hard to understand, what's even more difficult to comprehend is that he died alongside his mother Gina. They were driving up to northern calif. to help Chris begin a new job, his first really. He had just graduated last spring from Berkeley...a young man about to begin his career with his whole life ahead.

Can it be that we only realize how fragile life is when someone close dies suddenly. So many are affected by his death and are asking the same questions and dealing with similar feelings...perhaps it's the main reason for starting this memorial website (you will find his mother Gina's site at http://gina-yeh.memory-of.com). It doesn't matter how much or how little you knew them, here we all have a chance to share our thoughts and thus really how in their own ways Chris and Gina continue to touch others lives. And the  hope is that eventually the messages here will help comfort Brian and Stephanie. None of us can begin to fathom what they are going through but maybe knowing we are here with them at all times will help them get through those difficult times ahead.

The "how" details of the accident are still unclear to many and will come out in the coming days. It's the "whys" that won't be answered as easily and will always remain. Everyone knows his father Brian at work. He's the ultimate "nice guy". These things are not supposed to happen to "nice guys"...but they do. So everyone STOP! Take a moment to hug your loved ones. Every day counts, making special moments that become our lasting memories.

To visitors, if you have a picture or story of Chris, please upload and share it here with all of us who know him, or have come to know him, as a very special person.



  Autumn Rain

There's a very special garden
Where the trees of memory grow
Nurtured by the kindness
And concern that good friends show.
The roots are cherished memories
Of good times in the past
The branches tender promises
That souls endure and last.
It's a place of peace and beauty
Where bright new hopes can start
It's memory's lovely garden
That soothes the hurting heart.

- Author unknown 

  I'm Free

Don’t grieve for me, for I’m free. I’m following the path God laid for me. I took God’s hand when I heard the call; I turned my back and left it all.

I could not stay another day to laugh, to love, to work or play. Tasks left undone must stay that way, I found that place at the close of day.

In my parting has left a void, then fill it with remembered joy. A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss. Ah yes, these things, I too, will miss.

Be not burdened with times of sorrow, I wish you the sunshine of tomorrow. My life’s been full, I savored much, good friends, good times, a loved one’s touch.

Perhaps my time seemed all too brief; don’t lengthen it now with undue grief. Lift up your heart and share with me- God wanted me now, GOD set me free.
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Tributes and Condolences
Chris  / Andy Lau (Friend)
Chris Yeh..   The best Tennis player I have ever known.  One of the smartest guys on the planet.... Great person...    I am truely sad that he is gone..  I couldn't believe what a great person this world has lost.&n...  Continue >>
Ultimate Tennis Player!   / Cheryl Kyinn (High School and Tennis Friend )
I remember one time at a Key Club tennis tournament where the championship match ended up being between Chris and Frances vs. Owashi and myself.  And, needless to say, Chris, pretty much single handedly (no offence Frances) defeated both Owashi ...  Continue >>
8th Grade Neighbor   / Meera (Middle and High School Classmate )
I had known Christopher Yeh for seven years growing up. I don't remember much detail during that period, but I do remember vividly his wonderful humor and personality, especially in my 8th grade social sciences class when we had sat next to each othe...  Continue >>
Christuffer  / Hallie Chen (College Friend/ Suitemate )
We did not stay as close as we were when I lived at foothill- but you never failed to IM me and see how i was, to make sure I was happy and doing well. I remember freshman year when my jerk boyfriend would have me crying and sobbing alone in my dorm ...  Continue >>
To Chris   / Stephanie Hwa (Suitemate)
Chris,

I didn't know you that well, but you were kind and funny and such a nice guy to have around. Rest in Peace


Steph
To my Burrito  / Melissa Lock (college friend, suitemate )    Read >>
To the karaoke superstar  / Jason Li (College Friend )    Read >>
To the Fat Boy  / Edward Lee (Roommate)    Read >>
Our deepest sympathy  / Michelle White &. Penny Shaw Cedillo (SCAQMD (Co-Workers of Brian) )    Read >>
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His legacy
Never Apart  

Gina and Christopher Yeh, mother and son, were two wonderful and exceptional people who, in their brief time with us, managed to touch all of our lives. Very rarely are we fortunate enough to know two individuals who were blessed with intelligence and talent, but at the same time were open, honest and giving to all they knew.

Remarkably, both Gina and Christopher shared so many traits that at times, they were indistinguishable. As Christopher grew older, it became obvious that he had inherited many qualities from his mother. Both were intelligent and over-achieving as well as caring and giving. Both enjoyed life fully and never cast a shadow upon others. And both firmly held on to the bond they had as mother and son. 

Christopher Yeh was born March 15, 1985 in Panorama City, California. It was obvious from the beginning that he would be a person who was always ahead of the curve.

Christopher started kindergarten at 4 years old, a year ahead of most children. Throughout his academic career, he would always be a year ahead of his classmates and the youngest in his class. His educational achievement was stellar from elementary school through college. He was a straight-A student all the way through high school. Sprinkling his academic achievements were his extracurricular successes; at Suzanne Middle School, he represented his school in “MathCounts”, a regional math competition. In his last year of middle school, he remained ahead of the curve by taking math classes across the street at Walnut High School. When he did reach high school, he took numerous AP/Honors classes. In 11th grade, he started taking college-level classes. By the time he graduated high school, he had already earned enough credits to receive a degree from Mt. San Antonio College.

Complementing his academic achievements were his athletic accomplishments. Christopher began playing tennis when he was 10 years old and he entered and won many junior tournament championships. He joined his high school varsity tennis team during his freshman year and was team captain for three years. During those three years, he won a regional championship every year while he was team captain.

Christopher’s talents and skills paved the way to his entry into the University of California, Berkeley as an Electrical Engineering and Computer Science major in the Fall of 2002. In college, he continued to excel academically. He finished his majors in three and a half years and graduated in June of 2006. Because he had finished so many undergraduate units prior to starting UC Berkeley, he found that his interests had diversified and he began taking graduate-level computer engineering courses as well as several business courses.

In the Fall of 2005, Christopher attended on-campus interviews and was offered a job with Cisco Systems on the spot as an engineer. Even before he had finished college, he had already found himself a career position. Again, Christopher had remained ahead of the curve.

Despite his achievements, Christopher was never a single-minded person. He was an avid poker player. He created websites, traveled and played basketball. Although he favored Protoss, he could defeat you with any race in Starcraft. Those who knew Christopher described him as goofy with a sophisticated sense of humor, yet down to earth and honest to everyone he knew. Above all, he was never the type of person who showed off or bragged about his accomplishments. As a result, few outside his immediate friends and family knew just how talented and gifted Christopher really was.

But perhaps the greatest attribute that Christopher possessed was that he was a true friend to all he knew. Whether you had known Christopher for many years or for a few months, he treated everyone he knew with kindness and generosity. He would always find a way to keep in touch with you, whether through the internet, or the phone, or in person. To all who were fortunate enough to know him, he was extremely likeable, loyal, and always willing to send you a link to a funny video he found on the internet.

Throughout both of their lives, both Gina and Christopher were people who had a profound influence upon their friends and family through their personalities, as well as a profound influence upon the world with their accomplishments. They gave to everyone around them, but they especially gave to each other.

Gina and Christopher were not only mother and son, they were also best friends. Just as the two of them were inseparable during their time with us on this earth, they will forever be together as they watch over us from heaven.

 
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